Why Engagement Sessions Are So Important (And Honestly… One of the Best Parts of Wedding Planning)
When people think about wedding photography, they usually picture the big day. The dress, the venue, the ceremony, the reception, all the once in a lifetime moments. But what a lot of couples don’t realize is that your engagement session is one of the most important parts of the entire photography experience.
It’s not “just extra photos.”
It’s practice, connection, confidence… and honestly the perfect way to tell your love story before the wedding day even begins.
If you’ve been on the fence about booking an engagement session, let me show you why it’s absolutely worth it.
1. You Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera (Without Pressure)
Let’s be real! Most couples aren’t professional models. And you don’t have to be.
One of the biggest benefits of your engagement session is getting comfortable being photographed before the wedding day. Instead of meeting your camera for the first time during one of the most emotional and fast paced days of your life, you get a chance to ease into it.
By the time your wedding day arrives, you’ll already know:
how I guide you through posing (without feeling stiff)
what to do with your hands (everyone asks )
how to relax and just enjoy each other
how fun and easy photos can actually be
And that confidence shows in every image.
2. It’s a Chance for Us to Connect Before Your Wedding
Your photographer is one of the only vendors who is with you through the most intimate parts of your day. From nerves and excitement to happy tears and everything in between.
That’s why I love engagement sessions so much. It gives us a chance to really connect and build that comfort level before the wedding.
During your session, you’re not just taking photos. We’re building a relationship so that on your wedding day it feels like you’re being photographed by someone you genuinely trust (and actually enjoy being around).
I want you to feel like you can be fully yourselves with me.
3. We Choose a Location That Fits Your Vision + Vibe
One of my favorite parts of the engagement process is helping you choose the perfect location.
Some couples want:
romantic golden hour field vibes
downtown/city energy
modern and chic architecture
cozy, intimate, “just us” vibes
beach, lakes, mountains, or nature trails
something meaningful (like where you met or your favorite date spot)
Wherever your vision is, I’m here to help bring it to life.
I work closely with you to find a location that fits your style, your personalities, and the overall vibe you want your photos to feel like. I also help you consider important things like lighting, timing, privacy, and what photographs best.
4. Outfit Planning Matters And Yes, I Help With That Too
What you wear plays a huge role in how your photos turn out. Not because you need to be “perfect,” but because outfits help set the mood. Don’t worry… you don’t have to figure it out alone. I help my couples plan outfits that match the vibe they’re going for, whether that’s:
classy and timeless
bold and modern
soft and romantic
casual and fun
elegant and editorial
We talk through things like:
what colors photograph best
how to coordinate without looking overly “matched”
layering and textures for depth
choosing outfits that feel like you
what to avoid (tiny patterns, distracting logos, etc.)
whether a second outfit change would be a good idea
The goal isn’t to dress like someone else. It’s to look and feel confident while staying true to your style.
5. You’ll Get Genuine, Beautiful Photos You Can Actually Use
Engagement photos aren’t just for “posting on Instagram” (although yes… you’re going to want to post them everywhere ).
They’re also perfect for:
Save-the-dates
wedding invitations
wedding website photos
guest book prints
reception decor / welcome signs
framed photos for your home
announcements + social media
They become part of your story forever.
And the best part? The photos feel like you. Your love, your vibe, your connection… captured in a way that feels natural and real.
6. You Learn How I Shoot + How You Move Together
Every photographer has a different style. Engagement sessions are like a “trial run” so you know exactly what to expect.
You’ll see how I work, I’ll guide you step-by-step so you don’t feel awkward, and I’ll also give you room to just be in the moment with each other.
Most couples leave their session saying:
“I thought we were going to feel so awkward, but that was actually FUN.”
That’s always the goal.
What’s Included in an Engagement Session With Me?
Every engagement session includes more than just showing up and taking photos.
When you book with me, you can expect:
✨ Help choosing the perfect location
✨ Outfit guidance and styling help
✨ Posing prompts that feel natural (not forced)
✨ A calm, encouraging experience from start to finish
✨ Genuine, romantic moments + fun candid energy
✨ Professional editing and a beautiful gallery of images
You don’t have to know what to do. I’ll guide you the entire way.
Final Thoughts: Engagement Sessions Are More Than Photos… They’re an Experience
Engagement sessions are about more than getting pretty pictures.
They’re about slowing down in the middle of wedding planning and capturing what this season feels like. The excitement, the love, the connection, the “we’re really doing this” moment. Most importantly, it’s a chance for you to feel comfortable and confident going into your wedding day knowing your photographer has your back.
If you’re ready to plan an engagement session that feels like you, I’d love to help you create something beautiful.
Ready to Book Your Engagement Session?
Location planning help included
Outfit guidance included
A fun, guided, comfortable experience
Reach out today to reserve your date!
(Engagement sessions are also a great way to secure your wedding date on my calendar.)
